3 Ways to Get Friends & Family to Respect & Even Help You Build Your Business
If you want to be successful in network marketing, you must answer this dead-serious
Are you embarrassed to be involved in the network marketing industry?
It’s critical to be honest, because your answer has everything to do with the results (or lack thereof) you’ll achieve in your business.
Okay, so what’s your answer?
Are you unashamed to be a network marketer?
If so… thank you for being honest!
Now what if I showed you how you can earn the respect of your friends, family, and colleagues who might think network marketing is beneath you and/or a scam. Would that be cool?
I’m going to share a few possible solutions you can use if you’re suffering from embarrassment, or if you don’t want certain people in your life to know that you’re involved in one of those “Networking things.”
Luckily there are some very tangible and specific things that you can do to legitimize your business in the eyes of those around you, and ultimately, even in the eyes of everyone in our society.
Let’s dive into my three-step process for dealing with the negativity from the people around you (Thanks to my friend & mentor, Ferny for this)
This is the ONLY thing I’ll discuss that’s in alignment with what most top earners in this industry teach regarding how to deal with negativity.
And you’ve probably heard all this before…
You must fortify your mindset. You must believe this can work for you…not that it can work, not that can work for some, not that it can work for others, but that it can work for YOU!
Well, it’s true.
You won’t follow through on projects you don’t believe in, because everyone quits when they don’t believe they can actually do something.
Think of something BIG you’ve accomplished in your life—like going to school, attaining higher degrees, ambitious projects at work, or running a marathon.
You were able to achieve, because you believed
Even though it was difficult, even though it was challenging, even though it was daunting, you accomplished it.
Basically, you committed to the fact that you could do it, and then you figured out “how” along the way.
And so, I absolutely agree you have to fortify your mindset and believe your network marketing opportunity is the real deal.
If you have any doubts, or you think…
“Well, I don’t know if people will buy my products, because they’re kind of expensive.”
…then you just killed your business.
If you have any doubts about your abilities, or your compensation plan…
…then you won’t get far.
If you see people around you and you think…
“People were successful before, but, I don’t see a lot of people successful in my company now.”
…then you just sealed the deal on your future, as it relates to that business.
Which isn’t to say that every company is the same.
Sometimes these concerns are legitimate, but regardless, the result is the same…
You’re categorically sabotaging your success by having these doubts going through your mind.
You’ve got to be honest and realistic about what happens in the network marketing space—because it ain’t always pretty!
You’ve probably observed some shady practices in network marketing, and look, sometimes you’re going to run into situations like that.
Pyramid schemes and slimy business practices are real in this market, as they are in any profession.
Look at Wall Street or real estate; people do unethical things ALL the time in those industries.
Yet it doesn’t make those industries illegitimate or illegal.
So we must be real and honest about what’s wrong in our space.
This is where I don’t agree with the “orthodoxy” of network marketing
Most leaders will condition you to label anyone with negative comments as “haters” or losers.
The same goes for society-at-large’s negative view of our profession as a whole—you’re conditioned to label nearly everyone as negative people who don’t “get it,” and to push them aside.
I completely disagree with this strategy.
Because I think it’s ignoring a REAL problem, and I prefer to view the negativity as a symptom of what we’re doing wrong as an industry, or what we can do better in our profession.
Look, the reason people view our space in a negative light is because somebody, at some point in the history of network marketing, did something frankly stupid that created a ripple effect—that’s the bottom line.
My stance is simple…
The network marketing profession needs to take responsibility for how it’s viewed by society
That’s the only way anything will change.
And the way I intend to take responsibility and do something about our poor image is to teach REAL business practices, which will actually help to legitimize this profession.
Because when you legitimize how you operate, and operate like a real business, you not only are being realistic, you’re also going to fortify your mindset and get on the right track to elevate your friend’s and family’s opinion of your business.
Which brings me to step number three, which I feel is the most important…
The reason I built my business online using using “21st century tactics,” like social media, is because it legitimizes this profession.
The “old-school” methods of approaching everyone you know to try to get them into your business is NOT how a real business operates ─that’s NOT how you get to be successful in network marketing.
Allow me to repeat myself…
Approaching strangers, or people in a social setting, with a hidden agenda to get them into your business, is not how a real business operates!
That’s a fact.
Real businesses don’t do that.
Real businesses actually market and advertise their services!
And provide real solutions that help people solve their problems.
Makes sense, right?
So what does that mean?
Well, first and foremost, there’s a mindset component.
If you don’t have a real solution for people and the problems they’re experiencing in their lives, then they’re not going to be interested.
But if you do have something that helps people solve a problem that’s actually happening in their life, then they will likely be interested.
Whether it’s weight loss, health and wellness, fitness, financial planning and investing, insurance, beauty and longevity—whatever!
They key is attract the right people who are already interested in solutions like what you offer, so you’re not trying to… as the saying goes… sell steak to a vegetarian.
If this sounds daunting, don’t worry—I’m going to make it real simple.
Here’s all I did to start…
After meeting some mentors, they pointed me to a simple one page website (which I didn’t need to code) to attract & collect the contact information of new prospects who specifically requested more information about what I offered.
They showed me how to promote it to the right people, and leads started flowing in!
I never had to talk to friends, family or strangers about my opportunity, if I didn’t want to anymore!
Imagine the power of that!
Long story short, within 2 years I became a 6-figure income earner in my opportunity and over the past 10 years I’ve personally been responsible for over $17 Million in gross income into my home businesses, doing what real businesses do – market to people who would be interested in what you have instead of people who hate the industry!
When you are able to start making money in your business without doing “old school” strategies and put the “marketing” back into network marketing, the people around you will begin to respect you and some may become interested, because you’re now building in a way that seems appealing and making money to boot!
Start using internet marketing strategies
…and ditch the old school strategies, which will only serve to embarrass you, deflate you, and crush your belief in this industry, then I highly recommend you sign up for my FREE Online Recruiting Bootcamp.
It will walk you through the exact same process I’ve personally been using over the past 10 years to earn millions from home.
Today, my smart MIT friends no longer talk crap about my business, because frankly, I’m out earning every single one of them and I don’t have to work for anyone else to do it.
In fact, now they refer people to me who have a desire to earn income from home.
And here’s the bottom line:
There are cubicle slaves, lawyers, doctors, and professionals at high levels entering the network marketing space, because not only do they see a credible opportunity here, they also see a BETTER opportunity in network marketing.
So fortify your beliefs base and get ready to take the next steps…
Thanks to my mentor, Ferny Ceballos for these insights.
Simply click here and get access to the Online Recruiting Bootcamp.
I also recommend you pick up a copy of the book, the Attraction Marketing Formula & included bonuses, which you will learn about after you request the online recruiting course.
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